*THE TRUTH ABOUT MISOGYNY & FEMINISM
I consider myself an idealist because I believe everyone should have the opportunity to make decisions based on their principles and goals toward their heart’s desire, but also with consideration of mutual autonomy in place. When it comes to misogyny, it is typically from a place of distrust or a lack of confidence that one may feel they are lacking or not equipped with compared to what another person may have, fostering the illusion they are not “good enough.” I have observed that many adults fail to connect with the emotional connections that help create the feeling of being safe.
For instance, what one does for another is not a true kinship of emotional respect. If we do not see the connection, we can only identify the fragility of the foundation built around us. This is because the beliefs we have acquired from our biases and prejudices are used to power others against us. Most cisgender men tend to believe that they are trapped in a group of self-loathing bullies, and they then fall into the idea of "misogynistic envy."
On the other hand, their feminine counterparts are often encouraged and motivated to create distorted and imbalanced images of themselves to believe they are entitled to more than another person due to their bedroom positions. We are all human first, and what one desires in bed is not what one is expected to be in their daily life for show or to gauge another person's attention to their presence. Knowing what one can do for another is not what one is expected to be 24-7, with no apparent reason for altering one’s true identity.
The concept of feminism is polarized, meaning we first consider the whole person before discussing the feminine. When this is done, the feminine still has to perform at the same level as cisgender individuals while still being able to nourish and care for themselves. The feminine can make a house feel like home by expressing what they consider the most beautiful things in their lives. Remember, the roots are the masculine energy's expression of being deeply grounded and growing in the unknown.
In reality, they are in the womb of their feminine earth, which nourishes them through their environment. When a baby is afraid of the unknown, they tend to burrow deeper into their need for nurturing and motherly protection. Humans are masculine creators, and most men who live in misogyny are not taught about their creation story. This means they can internalize their inadequacy about what their mothers did or didn't do for them. This can create a distorted perception of how women are perceived due to their emotional development and what the presence of a father entails.
The things we think are meant to serve us are only functions of what the ego perceives as love. We must first understand how to show gratitude to a partner for helping us feel safe and supported, and this is done through a mutual choice of faith and will. The concept of relationships is a contract that was created to be within the understanding of one's teammates. The distorted view of one's partner can prevent them from moving forward. They are the ones who are stuck in a version of their partner's desires that is not what is needed to feel safe and supported.
An inadequacy is similar to a seed that needs to learn to thrive in an environment that is not favorable for its development until it finds a way to adapt. The source must then transform negative experiences into positive ones to create a flourishing garden. The masculine energy that provides source information is the initiation process that helps one establish abundance. The genuine concept of the farmer is of a humble soul who accepts that they are not producing their crop alone but are planting and harvesting the resources they utilize to build a foundation for flourishing crops to thrive.
The feminine is also using this tool to unify society. The womb is a portal that allows the mother to provide the man with life-giving and animated content. The cisgender male also utilizes masculine energy to help nourish and develop the foundation of the community. Father energy is the essential part of the masculine energy that we all seek to be, and it is the energy that enables us to align ourselves with one another in a place of mutual support. The trunk holds the roots to allow the tree to grow and produce its fruit. The feminine is the flower's source of beauty and the fruit's nourishment.
As a symbol of the feminine, the beauty of the fruit is returned to the masculine when the fruit over-ripens, falls from the branches to the ground, and decays back to source nutrients to be reborn. The feminine roots are alive in the womb but cannot express or bloom due to the energy trapped within them. This is the way dreams die, and desires are enhanced. You remain a tree sitting there, motionless, without a purpose of expression. The distorted perception of the masculine over the feminine is also why most avoid empathic responsibilities due to the lack of expression placed on cis-gender men by other cis-gender men.
This insight is because the ego has developed trauma-based directives that dictate what a man should do over what a woman does. The trickle-down effect becomes homophobia, setting bias for feminine expression to be deemed inappropriate. It makes no sense to see a person as either feminine or masculine; they are both components of a cycle and a byproduct of creation. The simple answer is that identifying with a shell that was never meant to be you is damaging to the mental cognition of one’s emotional development and expression.
The masculine roots must develop to balance one's integrity so their spirit doesn't get ripped up easily. The masculine must also engage to align themselves with the divine feminine plans. If they do not, then the methods of the feminine to co-create with source energy will be destroyed. The divine feminine requires masculine participation to align with the world's more tangible and fantastic manifestations by being a stable counterpart to their partner’s full blossoming.
Love,
JAH
