* THE EVOLUTION OF EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
The heart is the soul because it's the very first organ we develop as embryos, its the first thing the spirit incarnates life into, it’s the first thing full-bodied humans acknowledge as life existing. The heart is also the very first sound we hear as life from our mother's womb, the same throbbing heart which soothes you innately came from your grandmother's love and was then translated into your mother's understanding of love itself. The bond between child and mother is so profound because our lives begin inside of our mothers first. Like the depths of the darkest oceans, always near the unknown, yet still connected to the source of life.
Our fathers become the validation source from the outside world, as he was an external contributor, the agriculturalist of the seed. Planting this fertile seed in nutrient sourced land and natural elements to grow healthy, grounded, stable roots; safe enough to reproduce again. Kids tend to act out physically as their father or the masculine energies that influenced their life most. The same is valid on the dual side of why kids tend to feel and act out emotionally as their mothers or feminine energies do, duplicating these energies 5x fold to pass on to following generations to repeat.
The following generations are lingering in the time capsules of past trauma; we were condition through fear and control, which never worked. What does work? Teaching and leading by example, which can then guide generational transfers of knowledge accordingly, producing healthy, functioning, and happy offspring. Why is this important?
Well, because these same children are eventually going to grow up and need to know how to operate in the world at large and equally know how to interact socially with it, so they don't shut down in fear-based conditioning and spread these ideologies to others. Most adults, on average, have learned how to live for themselves once they hit their thirties, which has been introduced by way of linear conditioning and thinking that all respected wisdom should come with age. When in reality, kids are born knowing but have to learn tangible skills from family or tribe for survival.
Because some souls have been tortured through time and never can resolve this pain, they pass it on to the coming generations, which stagnates our collective growth. It's like the concept of "no kid left behind," in doing so, we slow down the entire class and its opportunity to excel past family conditioning. Instead, we should focus on building cognitive reasoning through emotional abilities vs. testing procedures that fail to reveal all of our innately intuitive visions of innovation through emotional intelligence and applied logic.
When we begin living for ourselves, then we can understand that no one is holding us hostage or is going to hold our hand too long through the world either. It's so important not to further over coddle your children or adult child when they need help with something; you know they have learned and could complete themselves. If a child observes one parent doing a task in authority and then that one parent asks the other for help, the other parent serves as the outside reactional catalyst of conditioning.
When the child can gauge a proper assessment of whos the alpha and whos the betta in every given situation, a behavior is born, and the following by-product would be the temperament imprinted, which they learned can either counterbalance or beat the other. It's hard for most parents to say no to their kids because you knowingly or unknowingly trained them to beat you at the emotional conditioning game, and the cycle will then repeat itself so on.
This understanding is fundamental to be aware of and comprehend in life when raising children because, at some point, the child will become a teen, then an adult, and finally an elder. In the final steps of the aging process, on-set atrophy of the body rapidly increases, switching the parental roles of parent and child, turning back the hands of time to have the child now parenting their parents.
The adult- child will soon take over tending to the care of their parents, but keep in mind if these kids don't have the tools to nurture and protect effectively, then they will get frustrated because they weren't taught necessary survival skills without the parent's intervention or aide. When this occurs, we usually fall into a moment of over-romanticizing our relationships with our parents, inadvertently mimicking the exact behaviors of shutting down, which traumatized you or confused you as a child developing. Even if your intentions are pure for them or our love for them is one-sided, if not taught how to close timelines properly, then we take over the cycle of unhealed trauma and pass it on to the next generation.
What we have built thus far is a world that works on ego logic alone with emotional knowledge secondary to the thought vs. the other way around. Yet not utilized or considered but diluted into trends of success, all fear-based ideas of happiness. Versus using love based logic which can justify the lack of mentality, and instead of taking away, it adds value to what we need to do to create gratitude and mindfulness.
As an example, let's say we have an even 50/50 split of logical thinkers, which represents the law, and then the other half are lateral thinkers who are religion, culture other forms of expression. If specific rules were not ignored, then certain types of art or religion wouldn't even exist because of a concentrated collective saying "no" or "yes," we then adjust, adapt, and move on.
I believe our ancestors stopped here or left off here when they settled and got used to other people doing the heavy work for them and forgot to do the same for themselves. In reaction to our dreary realities, we turn to the outside, shallow world for entertainment and validation; thus, the birth of FOMO. I believe telling someone they're not able to share "your" culture hinders the growth of all civilization because when you take something away from anyone, in contrast, something will come along to try to counteract its progress always.
No human can own all of source energy, but it seems we've spent millions of years and currency working to do so. Feeling overwhelmed, lost, and confused, we turn to the hedonistic side of our joy and ego-based addictions of coping, which are sex, drugs, and all categories that dwell within or around the codependency of social interactions.
The cycle will then repeat itself until someone figures out how to end this outdated system of psychosis and self-sabotaging behaviors that were given to us from ancestors before they had a chance to understand. We can begin a new cycle, which is stepping into the now and creating a future based on self-love, self-care, and the current energy that exudes agape love. So, here is where the healing practices come into play, everything we know is energy, and we are living energy in motion; this is what starts the ignition to the cycle of life through free expression , energy and the human body.
For example, this is why the throat chakra is so vital, if you don't say what you feel, then the soul will have anxiety because it will feel trapped inside of the ego, which activates the body shutting down. Then the heart interprets and feels these thoughts, transforming these into real emotions, and then the mind creates chemicals that further evoke these feelings to manifest into your body and personal daily reality.
Any concentrated energy is going to take over in time, and anything around it will be affected; this is why shifting your energy is so important. Like merely adjusting your body over its weight when moving from one side of your body to the next, this is a transfer of applied energy, and we as humans can adjust this comfort dial to any level we like. Instead of fighting what your body innately knows to do for the soul, step outside of ego-mind and watch the voicelessness of stored energy in action.
Spirit speaks through us, allowing us to be conduits of both the body and mind interchangeably while projecting the multiple characters that we become to fit into society. We get stuck in these mental prisons of identity, without healthy detachment of ego, the mind believes it’s the outside world's personality, mimicking conditional trends that later become ingrained habits of beliefs.
Regardless of how we have learned what love and fear genuinely look like, any form of real darkness or illumination will find its counterpart of like energy that completes the whole within the whole. No one is ever wrong or right; we are merely learning and repeating what we teach to learn, then we have to go out and find a new way to apply these lessons to our own actual life in this multidimensional world.
Once we have learned this on our own, we will become more connected and concentrated in sharing our experiences and stories of applied wisdom. From these teachings and experiences, the next generations can use these as examples to further create and deepen our roots within the ancestors' foundation of history. We teach and harness individual power by trusting the process of creation.
By correlating, connecting and amplifying our concentrated thoughts and desires into innovative practices, we as humans grow and then can provide useful feedback to the collective. Through trusting the heart and allowing the mind to rest and find peace in silence, we are then able to live and move about in a world of dynamism without fear or doubt.
Though we use our eyes to see, they are not the mind; the brain and the heart are both entirely in the dark, the only thing that helps us navigate through is by continually communicating with self and trusting the hearts intuition through the darkness. Love begins in the coolness of the dark moon, as a seed growing in muffled silence, while life begins in the stark light and heat of the sun; as a fresh sprout absorbing all that it reflects. Somewhere right in the middle of both lies the surface that keeps both grounded and stable in life.
We are light outside of the body and the darkness inside of it. The body is the facilitator to both worlds of the tangible and intangible. Embrace the body as a vessel and gift to you from mother Gaia, our families, and the living environment around us. There are still cycles left pending, but with practicality, emotionality, and genuine empathy, coming generations can finally be complete and heal the past to reveal a new future and world for all to thrive.
Love,
JAH
